What does my mother have to do with it?

Sometimes you think you need structure and accountability, so you put it in place. It works for a while...then it doesn't.

What's wrong?

You're looking past yourself.

A client will come because they're stuck. When questioned what's in the way, they have no idea or think it's something external. Often it is the effect of a past relationship that they're running into.

Huh? They admit they’re having trouble dating but “what does my mother or father have to do with that? Besides I've made peace with them! We have an okay relationship today!” Having "worked it out" with that person does not mean you've worked it out within yourself. Take a good look again, the difficulty and solution are closer than you think